These are the things that come up time after time, and they address the fears that we all have—does my wig look fake, "wiggy", and if so, why? What can I do about it? Here are a few of the most common “wig sins” that most of us have experienced.
]]>These are the things that come up time after time, and they address the fears that we all have—does my wig look fake, "wiggy", and if so, why? What can I do about it? Here are a few of the most common “wig sins” that most of us have experienced.
Until next time,
Vickie Lynn
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I did a blog on this a couple of years ago, and just recently the subject has popped up again on the Facebook page. When (or if) is it time to tell your partner or potential partner that you wear a wig?
]]>I did a blog on this a couple of years ago, and just recently the subject has popped up again on the Facebook page. When (or if) is it time to tell your partner or potential partner that you wear a wig? Since people wear wigs for different reasons, there are a lot of different answers to this question.
If you wear wigs due to hair loss from an illness, and your husband or partner would know that you now have helper hair, then that is an entirely different thing. You wouldn’t have to worry about the “telling” part. For you, it might just be what makes you feel more comfortable or better about your appearance, or what gives you more confidence that you look more like yourself. You are still you. If you are already in a relationship that is something that will work itself out.
If you are dating or trying to meet someone, that is a very different thing, and with different challenges. How do you tell, when do you tell, how much do you tell—or don’t you tell at all? If casual dating turns into more, the time will come when you have to make this decision. Although I did talk to a woman who dated a guy for six months and managed to skip the telling part. She said she always told him that anyone touching her head would generate a migraine. Whatever works, I guess. Eventually though she couldn’t continue with the story for various reasons, and she told him. He broke up with her but not because of the hair, but because she had lied to him for so long. Trust was broken, he said, and he told her that now he didn’t know who she was. This may seem a bit dramatic or an over-reaction on the man’s part, but everyone is different.
We are all different and our circumstances and relationships are different. Do you talk about it on the first date? I’d say no. Why go into that before you even know if you will like the person. But what about the second or third date? What if things get more serious? Here we go—decision time.
I have heard several stories about this, and how different women handled this, but to me it all comes down to good judgement, confidence, honesty, and trust. Can you look the person in the eye and tell them with confidence that you have hair issues and that you wear wigs? But only you will know when that time comes to tell. When you become more uncomfortable keeping it from someone than telling them, or if you know that things are progressing in such a way that the time has come, you will find your words, your way.
Okay, so let’s say you told them, and you are in a relationship now, and you think it might be a good one, maybe a long-term one. So, now what—do you ever let them see you without the wig? Again, everyone is different, and it comes down to your relationship. Do you or can you wear your wig to bed? Yes, but there are reasons that you shouldn’t. It might affect the quality of your sleep, your level of comfort, and over time would damage your wig. You be able to temper the abuse by just doing it now and then, but for the long haul, there will be a price to pay. Between the friction, tangles, frizz, dried out fibers, you are likely looking at a short life span for the wig.
Options are great, and there are several if you don’t want to sleep without a wig. I have heard of women buying “sleep wigs” or just keeping a wig that was on the “can’t really wear this out anymore” list and sleeping in that. You can also braid or pin your wig down to keep it more stable and from tangles and lessen the friction. You can also use a head wrap, and by all means get a silk or satin pillowcase, which will cut down on friction. These are all things you can try if you do decide that you don’t want to be seen without a wig, even in bed.
In the end, each of us will make the decision that works best for us. People are often kinder and more understanding than we think. Others are often dealing with their own issues and can relate to your challenges.
Have a good hair week, know that you are beautiful, and know that we all deserve to be happy and to be loved. Don’t let anything stop you from going for what you want. In the meantime, check these “softies” out. I wear them around the house in case someone comes to the door unexpected. So cute and so comfy.
The Elegant Softie by Jon Renau
Until next time,
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XOXO, Wig Studio 1
]]>Brighton is a breezy bob, brimming with texture and movement. Sharp ends and shaggy disconnected layers bring an edge to her carefree waves for an altogether chic look.
Smooth and sleek, James is an utterly stunning style that always looks flawless. Her subtle layers add extra depth and gentle movement, giving her a beautifully polished look and easy-to-wear feel.
Sevyn is a long, romantic style with loose, luscious curls. Her thoughtful layers fall just right, giving those irresistible waves relaxed movement and soft volume for a look that is just dreamy.
There is more than one thing to think about when it comes to finding a wig cap we can live with, but it’s not mission impossible. It’s not just the cap materials that’s always to blame—
]]>Wig Shown Above: Gia Mono Wig by Envy in color Cinnamon Raisin
There is more than one thing to think about when it comes to finding a wig cap we can live with, but it’s not mission impossible. It’s not just the cap materials that’s always to blame—it can be friction from the cap moving around on your head that causes itching, (do you have a poor fitting wig?) or maybe it’s the way you’re securing the wig. Any kind of wig grip, glue, or pins can cause irritation and pressure points. It might take some experimenting to find what works best for you.
The other causes of itching could be a poor-quality wig, dirt and/or oil accumulation, and wig styling products that have built up on the wig and transfer to the scalp. Another culprit that we don’t necessarily think of first is allergies. The chemical residue from the cap and fibers, or even dust from wig storage can bother some wig wearers. Another important thing to remember is that if you don’t wash and rinse your wig well, the residue will be left on the cap and fibers and could also irritate your scalp. Doing a poor washing and rinsing job can also make your wig look dull, lifeless, and shorten its life span.
Wig construction is the beginning spot. The fibers are attached to the cap using several different techniques and the technique used can make a difference in comfort and the way the wig looks. On most wigs, the fibers are attached in “wefts” which are strips of hair doubled and sewn together in long strands. Others are hand-tied to give the illusion of natural movement and will look more realistic by having more styling and parting options, especially those with lace fronts. The 100% hand-tied monofilament and double monofilament wigs are known for being the most sensitive but can be warmer due to less air circulation than you get with wefted caps.
A scalp that sweats a lot can also irritate your scalp. But you can still keep your hand-tied monofilament or double monofilament wig, just insert a sweat liner. These can be a real lifesaver in the summer, especially. The double monofilament tops cover the entire crown area of the head and has an extra soft layer that protects your scalp from the knots of the hair. This wig type is recommended for anyone with a sensitive scalp, especially those with little or no bio hair.
There are other parts of the wig cap that are important as well; ear tabs and a lace front can make a real difference. If you have a sensitive scalp, velvet-lined ear tabs will help prevent itchiness, and irritation. The lace front not only helps with styling and parting options and looks more natural, but it is also softer than the band of a basic cap wig.
The wig-grip-caps, a grip-band sewn around a soft cotton cap, all in one piece, has a Velcro closure at the back so that you can adjust it. It is also useful as a sleep cap, or to wear under a hat, around the house, or to wear under your wig for comfort. However, if you wear it under your wig, you must allow for the bulk. Because of that, it might not be the best idea for those with bio hair or those who have a wig that is a perfect fit, or on the snug side. But if your wig is a bit big and moves around, irritating your scalp, this could solve both problems by filling up any space between your wig and scalp to make it fit better while providing you with a more comfortable cap.
For every problem there is a solution, and that goes for wig wearing too. New things are being created all the time as more people embrace wig wearing and ask that their needs be met.
Until next time, I’m thinking of trying one of the all-in-one wig grip caps, just to wear around the house or under my baseball cap when I go for a walk! I’ll let you know how it goes.
Happy shopping, and what about that great new PUSH line? So beautiful.
-VickieLynn
]]>As you likely know. PUSH HAIR has made its debut and there is a lot of happy people! Not only are the colors and styles beautiful, but the choices in those colors and styles speak to what wig wearers today really love.
]]>As you likely know. PUSH HAIR has made its debut and there is a lot of happy people! Not only are the colors and styles beautiful, but the choices in those colors and styles speak to what wig wearers today really love.
The wigs in the PUSH line are the result of listening to all wig wearers’ comments, wants, likes, and wish-fors.
Take a look today at the great styles and colors in the PUSH HAIR line and get ready to have a wonderful experience. Whether you can’t live without the customizable lace fronts, the amazing French Silk tops, 100% Remy European human hair and hand-tied caps, or if you are a fan of the synthetic, heat-friendly fibers, lace front and full mono top, and open wefted cap…there is a PUSH wig waiting for you.
If you are a fan of the great synthetics, and like modern chic, look at Amelie—so amazing and available in TEN colors! Or if you want something more on the casual side—give Vivienne a look, with its tousled beachy waves. Go a little dramatic and check out Gisele, human hair wig that comes in TWELVE colors, or Margaux a sixteen-inch wavy human hair wig. Or maybe look at Eileen, sleek, perfect shoulder length cut, ready to wear. And this is just a few in the PUSH line.
In the synthetic options, you will discover some of your already favorite BelleTress colors: British Milk Tea, Root beer Float Blonde, Brown Sugar Sweet Cream, Butterbeer Blonde, and Bombshell Blonde, and many more. Human hair colors features Mocha, Noir, Noisette, Ginger, Belle and Jolie, Brulee Doree, Glacial, and many more! It’s hard to go wrong.
If you need help or have questions about colors or styles, or pricing, please let customer service know.
I’m dreaming of all the styling options, and the wonderful colors, and plan to try Amelie in the synthetics and Eileen in the human hair group.
Please remember to give Wigstudio1 feedback about your favorites.
Until next time, I will be thinking about colors now that I have decided on a style to get me through spring and into summer—Just thinking ahead,
VickieLynn
]]>The Add In Hair Topper offers luxurious Remy human hair for a seamless blend, featuring a monofilament hand-tied base design for comfort and a natural look. Ideal for beginning to mid-progressive stages of hair loss with a polyurethane perimeter. Measuring just below 15 inches long for added volume and hair length. Elevate your confidence and style effortlessly with the Add In Hair Topper, where elegance meets convenience.
The Impact Hair Topper features luxurious Remy human hair and a smaller base size, ideal for those with beginning stages of hair loss or just wanting additional volume. With a natural lace front and 100% hand-tied construction, it offers comfort and authenticity. Impact features a longer length of up to 17.75 inches.
Introducing the Finesse Hair Topper by Ellen Wille – designed for mid-stage hair loss. This medium-sized topper features heat-friendly synthetic fiber for versatile styling, a comfortable hand-tied base, and a polyurethane perimeter. Finesse is one of the longest topper options in the Top Power Collection measuring up to 22 inches for added length and volume. Elevate your confidence and style effortlessly with Finesse.
Galaxy is a premium hair topper made with top-quality European Remy human hair. It features a lace front for a seamless look, a comfortable monofilament top with soft tulle, and is just over 13" in length. Ideal hair loss solution for beginning to mid-progressive stages of hair loss. Versatile and natural, Galaxy is your go-to solution for beautiful hair that blends effortlessly with your own. Shine like a star with Galaxy!
Introducing the Stream topper for the Top Power Collection. This medium-sized topper features heat-friendly synthetic fiber that arrives with beautiful waves right out of the box. It boasts a lace front and lace top for a natural look, while the wefted back ensures comfort. This topper provides a longer length option of up to 17.5 inches for added versatility. Elevate your beauty effortlessly with the Stream Topper, where convenience meets elegance.
Superb is a medium-sized topper designed for those who appreciate the finer things in life. It offers a light density and is crafted from the finest Remy human hair, delivering a natural, luxurious look. With its 100% hand-tied construction and Comfort Lace Front, this topper ensures both comfort and opulence. Elevate your style effortlessly with the Superb Hair Topper – a symbol of pure luxury.
Discover confidence and natural beauty with the Ellen Wille Orbit Human Hair Topper. Crafted from premium human hair, this hand-tied topper seamlessly blends for an undetectable, realistic appearance. Experience comfort and versatility with easy styling. Perfect for those seeking volume or dealing with hair loss, the Orbit Topper is your go-to solution for a quick and stylish transformation. Elevate your look effortlessly with Ellen Wille's renowned quality.
We cannot WAIT to see you all in these gorgeous Ellen Wille Toppers! Be sure to join our private Facebook group and share your selfies with us!
Xoxo, Wig Studio 1
Learn more about Ellen Wille's Topper Collection HERE!
Ellen Wille's Top Power Collection Virtual Catalog
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Our PUSH line was created with very specific ideas in mind. Naturalness-Grace-Confidence. INSPIRATION-That is what we want for you and that is what we want from our wigs. Whether the wig is human hair or synthetic, our aim is for PUSH HAIR to empower you with looks that last, that are tailored to your personal style.
]]>Our PUSH line was created with very specific ideas in mind. Naturalness-Grace-Confidence. INSPIRATION-That is what we want for you and that is what we want from our wigs. Whether the wig is human hair or synthetic, our aim is for PUSH HAIR to empower you with looks that last, that are tailored to your personal style.
Take a peek at the new PUSH wigs and see which one calls to you. It will be difficult to decide, I promise you. Whether you fall for Gisele, with her long layers designed to add texture, movement and versatility. Or Eileen, a sleek and chic straight design, you can’t go wrong. They are both available in twelve colors and feature a customizable hairline, French silk top, and a fully hand-tied cap with luxurious 100% REMY European human hair.
One of my favorites is Margaux, a captivating shoulder-length style with natural waves and is in a word—elegant. I also found Collette, with her heat friendly fibers and left mono part and lace front not only elegant but sexy with her side-sweeping bangs and bouncy layers. Margaux is available in twelve colors, and Collette in ten. From Mocha to Glacial, there is a color for almost everyone.
For those who would rather have heat-friendly and easy to style synthetics, with a budget friendly price point—we have you covered too. There is nothing like a bob, and Amelie doesn’t let you down. Trendy, sleek and sophistication all in one wig! She has heat-friendly fibers, a lace front, full mono top and open wefted cap. Available in ten fabulous colors!
I’ve heard more than one compliment about Vivienne. What could be better than tousled beachy waves that start us dreaming of the summer and carefree days? She is light to medium density and is heat-friendly with a lace front, mono part, and open wefted cap. Vivienne is also available in the ten heat-friendly PUSH colors.
From English Toffee to Bombshell Blonde, you can’t go wrong with these amazing new heat-friendly synthetic pieces from PUSH Hair by Wig Studio 1.
If you have been wanting something new in your wig wardrobe, look no further. Get one, or one of each today, try a new style, try a new color, and enjoy the new you.
Until next time,
VickieLynn with an eye on Eileen in the color Glacial
]]>WigStudio1 is excited to show off the new PUSH line of high-quality human hair and synthetic wigs. These wigs offer a unique and luxurious experience for those in search of exquisite wigs of unparalleled quality and inclusive accessibility.
]]>WigStudio1 is excited to show off the new PUSH line of high-quality human hair and synthetic wigs. These wigs offer a unique and luxurious experience for those in search of exquisite wigs of unparalleled quality and inclusive accessibility.
Why are these wigs so special? You will find wigs that have the look of natural hair and tailored to your personal style. Push Wigs, where elegance meets innovation.
The human hair wigs are true standouts. They feature 100% Remy European hair, French Silk Tops, and customizable lace fronts.
If you have been longing for a human hair wig and want a way to make your look special—then PUSH HAIR is going to make you very happy.
We have added six new styles to our line that will be featured this month, January 2024. If you have not gotten to know PUSH HAIR, now is a great time to get acquainted. Find one that speaks to you and know that you are getting quality and something truly special.
When we developed this new line, we thought of the things we wanted in a wig. We all want the same things: naturalness, comfort, ease of wear, and to be able to wear our wigs with grace and confidence.
The synthetic wigs are truly special, and we will take a look at those too. But for now, let’s talk about human hair—what is it that makes these wigs exceptional? As with everything, the decision to invest in human hair starts with the individual. We all have different likes, dislikes, needs, and budgets. But the more we know about the differences, the better the decision-maker we become.
Understanding and caring for all wigs and the human hair difference:
As we know, all wigs need care, and some more than others. There are those high-quality human hair wigs that require different care than would a synthetic wig with a wefted cap. There are those that can take the heat of tools, and those who can’t. There are those, like hand-tied that require a more careful handling when washing as to not loosen the fibers from the cap. Every wig type is going to be a bit different.
How to---and how often to…Wash a Human Hair Wig (This will also be covered in more detail in the next blog).
The experts usually recommend that the wig be washed and conditioned every 6 to 8 wears. This will vary by time worn, a few hours vs. ten to twelve hours a day every day, etc. Things to consider also: Does your head sweat? Do you have a good cap fit so that your scalp is not irritated?
The thing most wig wearers forget is that human hair needs moisture, and in the case of wigs, you must provide that consistently for the best outcome. Never soak/submerge your wig. Rinse by holding under cool running water, allowing it to run from roots to ends Don’t forget the conditioner! Follow the recommendations for the conditioner. That usually means letting it set for a minute or two. Before rinsing under cool, running water. Also, it’s important that conditioner only be applied from mid-shaft to ends. Do not apply it to the base or cap, as that affects the integrity of the wig and may result in shedding. Make sure that you choose products formulated for color-treated hair and follow the instructions when using a deep conditioner/treatment. No squeezing or twisting, pat dry with soft towel and hang on wig stand. If you plan to blow dry the wig, or use heat on the wig, be sure to add a heat protectant.
Additional recommendations for your human hair wig
So, what does all of this mean for you? If you have decided to make the investment, human hair wigs can be as close to having your biological hair back as we might get. Along with the look of real moving, true feeling of biological hair, you get the comfort of an exceptionally made cap. If that wasn’t enough, you get some color choice that will make you think twice about that big color decision.
More to come! We will have more details about the care of the human hair wig in the next blog, “frequently asked questions” and also take a peek at the beautiful synthetic wigs in this PUSH line. We will also have a blog that will focus on all the new styles and colors…so much to be excited about! Stay tuned.
Until the next blog,
Stay warm and take a look at PUSH HAIR on the website.
Vickielynn
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We may not often think about (or appreciate) the origin of all the things that we use, consume or rely on every day. That was true for me about my wigs. I started to do research, and I was fascinated by the history of wig making. While there is so much to tell, I have hit on some highlights here that I thought were particularly interesting.
]]>We may not often think about (or appreciate) the origin of all the things that we use, consume or rely on every day. That was true for me about my wigs. I started to do research, and I was fascinated by the history of wig making. While there is so much to tell, I have hit on some highlights here that I thought were particularly interesting.
Anthropologists speculate that wigs may have been used as long as 100,000 years ago. Wigs were quite popular among ancient Egyptians, who cut their hair short or shaved their heads in the interests of cleanliness and comfort (i.e., relief from the desert heat). While the poor wore felt caps to protect their heads from the sun, those who could afford them wore wigs of human hair, sheep's wool, or palm-leaf fiber mounted on a porous fabric. An Egyptian clay figure that dates to about 2500 B.C. wears a removable wig of black clay. The British Museum holds a beautifully made wig at least 3,000 years old that was found in the Temple of Isis at Thebes; its hundreds of tiny curls still retain their carefully arranged shape.
During the late eighteenth century, Louis XVI wore wigs to hide his baldness, and wigs were very fashionable throughout France. The modern technique of ventilating (attaching hairs to a net foundation) was invented in this environment.
A little about Methods and the good and the challenges:
Wigs of synthetic materials (e.g., acrylic, modacrylic, nylon, or polyester) are popular for several reasons. They are comparatively inexpensive (costing one-fifth to one-twentieth as much as a human hair wig). During the past decade, significant improvements in materials have made synthetic hair look and feel more like natural hair. In addition, synthetic wigs weigh noticeably less than human hair versions. They hold a style well—so well, in fact, that they can be difficult to restyle them. On the other hand, synthetic fibers tend not to move as naturally as human hairs, and they tend to frizz from friction along collar lines. Synthetic hair is also sensitive to heat and can easily be damaged (e.g., from an open oven, a candle flame, or even a cigarette glow).
Human hair remains a popular choice for wigs, particularly because it looks and feels natural. It is easily styled, and unlike synthetic hair, can be permed or colored. United States wigmakers import most of their hair. Italy is known as a prime source of hair with desirable characteristics; other colors and textures of hair are purchased in Spain, France, Germany, India, China, and Japan. (Women contract with hair merchants to grow and sell their hair.) After cutting, the hair is treated to strip the outer cuticle layer, making the hair more manageable. Wigmakers pay $80 or more per ounce for virgin hair, which has never been dyed or altered in any way. (This has likely gone up in cost over the last few years.) A wig maker requires at least 4 oz (113.4 g) of hair to be able to design a wig from human hair.
Some manufacturers blend synthetic and human hair for wigs that have both the style-retaining qualities of synthetic hair and the natural movement of human hair. However, this can complicate maintenance, since the different types of hair require different kinds of care.
Credit for some background to: How Things are Made, Volume 3, 2021.
VickieLynn (in non-human hair)
]]>When you add item the first eligible item to your cart, you now have the option to add a small fee of $3.98 to your order.
This fee grants you access to our risk-free try-on program. What does that mean for you? Well, it's pretty fantastic!
We understand that options are key, and not everyone might want to participate in the risk-free try-on program. Or you may be re-purchasing your favorite go-to style. If you choose not to add the $3.98 fee at checkout, don't worry! You still have the flexibility to use our return portal.
All items returned must meet the same quality standards. If you have a question, read more about our eligible returns before trying on.
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At WigStudio1, we're dedicated to providing you with the best shopping experience possible. The introduction of our risk-free try-on program reflects our commitment to your satisfaction and confidence in every purchase. So go ahead, explore our collection, and shop with the peace of mind that comes with knowing you have options tailored to your needs!
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]]>No matter what you try, do you still think your wig looks fake? This is most often a new wig wearer’s affliction. When we look in the mirror we focus in on “all that hair” and assume it looks fake. We are so used to seeing our fine, thin hair, that no wig looks real.
]]>No matter what you try, do you still think your wig looks fake? This is most often a new wig wearer’s affliction. When we look in the mirror we focus in on “all that hair” and assume it looks fake. We are so used to seeing our fine, thin hair, that no wig looks real. The good news is that as you learn to work with your wig, pick the best wigs for you—you will begin to see things differently. You will get used to looking at yourself with more “hair” and be able to focus more on style and color, the same as if it was your biological hair.
Sometimes at the beginning of our wig journey, if we first try a wig with a lot of permatease—it can be a huge shock. Some styles, brands, do seem to pack a lot more “hair” into their wigs than anyone would ever have naturally. This is where a bit of skill comes into play, and trial and error—and time. For most of us, especially if losing our hair was a drawn-out process where we got used to thinning hair, any wig might look like too much hair at first, and that takes a while to get used to for most people.
I don’t claim to have any hairstyling skill, so I depend on my hairdresser to do a bit of thinning and shaping on some styles. Some think that permatease is the problem, and that it makes you look as if you have a ton of hair on top. But some permatease does work for some styles and gives the wig lasting shape to support the style. Picking the right style for your facial features, and right color, will be as important as your decision about permatease.
Also, we need to remember we can’t expect a cheap wig to look as good as one with all the bells and whistles. We do get what we pay for in more ways than one. A good quality and well-made wig can make all the difference in how real they look and how long they last. We have all come to expect that a human hair wig will look more realistic. We know that a lace front and mono top can give our wigs a more realistic look, depending on the style. We know that synthetic, non-heat friendly wigs can be helped if we tamp down that shine and choose rooted colors. We know to look for blended shades of color because flat colors scream fake. Fortunately, wig construction has gotten increasingly better over the years.
We learn that it’s difficult to pull any wig from a box, put it on our head, and have it look very realistic. Though some styles are almost just that—great, right out of the box. But the majority of the time we need to customize the wig for us, and that can include seeking professional help like a hair stylist to maybe trim, thin, cut bangs if needed, and in general, shape it up to suit our face—if needed. I have had to do that with only two longer wigs.
Some other issues in wig wearing that sometimes get overlooked or thought about too late are: wig fit (cap size), wig placement (does it sit at the natural hairline?) and wig security. Did you prep your bio hair if needed and find a method of securing the wig that is comfortable for you? Trial and error will help with this.
In the end, we get back what we put into our wigs. They are an investment, so it’s worth learning all we can to make them look great and last a long time.
Sometimes it is hard for us to be objective as we stand in front of the mirror. That’s where a professional stylist comes in. Your mom, best friend, partner, etc., might not be the best person/people to ask when it comes to picking a wig color and style—for obvious reasons. A stylist has no real emotional investment, and it’s her or his business to do a good job for their clients. They do this for a living.
Until next time, wishing you all a happy holiday season. Break out that new wig and show off a little.
-VickieLynn
]]>As I wrote about it this time last year, when the big push to embrace gray seemed to be gaining in popularity, not much has changed. It is still with us and so is that need to find the right shade of gray.
]]>As I wrote about it this time last year, when the big push to embrace gray seemed to be gaining in popularity, not much has changed. It is still with us and so is that need to find the right shade of gray. Encouraged by the ever-growing selection of beautiful gray wigs, we now have more options than ever—and that sometimes makes it harder to decide. I will be the first to admit that I had not given going gray much thought before last year.
The more I got into researching the gray wigs, the more I knew I had to learn. Gray, silver, white, or any combinations of these are all choices now. Big changes are not always easy, no matter how much we might want them. As I considered going gray, I faced two big questions: 1. How can I or anyone make such a drastic change with ease? Should we just do it, go from one color to a shade of gray overnight, or should we ease into it with a transition color—or two? (For me, it turned out that I needed a transition color and time. 2. I do I figure out the best shade(s) of gray for me?
If you do decide to “just go for it” get help if you think you need it—learn what brands carry the wig styles and cap construction that you prefer if you are new to wigs. If you already know all about caps, styles, brands, and what works best for you, then you are ahead of the game. All you need to decide is if the colors you are considering are found in the styles that you like…or is it time to re-visit other styles that might have colors that you love?
Tips from the professionals about choosing a color/shade and style:
Going gray does not mean we must go shorter. We can still find wigs in gray tones that are longer. But if you do decide to go short or shorter, remember to pick a style that flatters your face shape. Ask yourself if your style makes your face look younger or older. Does the too long hair pull the face down? Would you look better with a shorter, more face flattering style?
Once you find the right one, don’t be afraid to claim you color—and don’t be afraid of shades of gray! It’s all about the shade/tone, color and style.
If you had rather take the plunge more slowly, there are some lovely options. Most all the major brands are now making gray color options.
Skin Tone! We must not forget that our skin tone will play a big role in how we look in these shades of gray, silver or white. Yes, it is ever important as we age because our skin tone changes. Know your skin tone as it is NOW and that will help you key in on colors/shades that will look best on you. For example, if you have a cool skin tone you likely already know that ashy colors, shades of honey, beige, and gray work well for you. Just remember, the tone and color gradient and dimension are the keys for gray shades just as it is for any color. Flat equals fake.
These are just two of my favorites, but there are many more to consider.
Ready for Takeoff Wig by Raquel Welch
Cara 100 Deluxe Wig by Ellen Wille
Until next time, here I am thinking that I might go gray…maybe silver.
VickieLynn – in RW, Muse, in shaded cappuccino, the color before my current transition color, Shaded Iced Latte Macchiato. Working my way toward one of the two listed
]]>Yes, we love our wigs, and we don’t want them to age, or ever look anything but perfect. But we live in the real world, and we know that everything ages, and our wigs are no exception.
]]>Yes, we love our wigs, and we don’t want them to age, or ever look anything but perfect. But we live in the real world, and we know that everything ages, and our wigs are no exception.
As most of us know, and all new wig wearers will learn in time, the popular synthetic wigs suffer from friction. Yes, those clumpy, frizzy ends show up one day, seemingly overnight. The longer wigs are especially subject to the wear and tear friction causes. They are in constant contact with our clothing, neck/shoulders, and every movement causes friction.
The Tip: Spray those ends with products made for synthetic hair. Spray, brush and dry. A hand-held steamer will do wonders to smooth out those ends and a lot of wig wearers also sing the praises of the flat/curling iron. There are many great videos available by the reviewers about wig care. Do a quick search on YouTube and you are bound to find a few to help you.
Wig security is another issue a lot of new wig wearers ask about and worry about.
The Tip: Do what feels right for you. Every person has an opinion about this because we will have different needs based on what feels most secure and comfortable to each of us. Related to wig security is how the wig itself fits on your head. Every head is at least a little different in size and shape. There are combs, glue, grips, tape, and all manner of things to try. Some people (me) don’t use any wig security items, not even a wig sock/cap. I was lucky to find a brand and several wigs that fit me so perfectly that I always feel secure wearing them.
Is it worth the time and money to take your wig to a stylist? Again, that’s a personal decision. I don’t wear longer wigs now, but I did at one time. I took my first wig to a stylist and was very happy with the results. When we go to a stylist with our bio hair, they shape the cut to our individual faces and head. Making your wigs more “you” can start with tweaking the bangs or more drastic steps like trimming and thinning it. Some of us are very talented in this area but a lot of us are not (me).
The Tip: Don’t try this at home unless you are sure of your skills. Seeking help from a trained stylist can help you make the wig look less wiggy and more natural. They have an eye for style, face shape, and what cut works best for you. It is well worth the money, in my view.
How often do I wash my synthetic wig? This is a question I see a lot. Wig wearers are concerned about product buildup. But every time you wash your wig you shorten its life a little. But the good news is that there are tools we can use to help smooth those frayed ends and add back that healthy looking shine.
The Tip: There is no one rule for everyone. How long each day you wear you wig? Does your head sweat? Do you use a lot of products? Are you out in hot weather a lot? Do you wear a wig cap? All of these things can make a huge difference in how often you should wash your wig.
Wig washing rules:
1. Make sure your wig is tangle free.
2. Make sure you have shampoo and conditioner made for wigs.
3. Look at your manufacturer’s instructions, but most will say, use cool to very slightly warm water, *soak for five minutes, and rinse in tepid water. *Note that for hand-tied caps, most prefer a non-soaking wash where you use your fingers and pour the water over the fibers instead of soaking them. This will help prevent the knots from coming loose.
4.Use a conditioner and follow the instructions. Some are rinse out, some are leave on.
5. Place wet wig on towel and pat out excess water, rather than rubbing or twisting.
6. Run your fingers through it to straighten any kinks and clumps, but don’t use a brush or comb until totally dry. **For human hair, please see your brand’s instructions.
Until next time, happy holiday wig shopping and wig wearing.
VickieLynn
]]>Wig cap construction can be more important to some than others. If you have a sensitive scalp (me), no hair, or sparse hair (me), it can make a real difference in your wig wearing experience.
]]>Wig cap construction can be more important to some than others. If you have a sensitive scalp (me), no hair, or sparse hair (me), it can make a real difference in your wig wearing experience. No one can feel good, no matter how good they may look, if their head is hot, itchy, or if you are afraid the wig will come off in a stiff breeze.
My first wig was from a wig salon/boutique, and it was hand-tied, mono-top, and lace front. Inexperienced me, I thought all wigs were like this…surprise! Yes, I had a lot to learn. As I went on in my journey, paying more attention to style and color and less to cap construction— at first, I found myself increasingly uncomfortable in any other wig caps other than my first with the hand-tied cap, mono top and lace front. Even though the wigs were more expensive and sometimes kept me from buying styles and colors I liked, to me it was worth it for the comfort.
Fortunately, these days, there are a lot more wig options and plenty of comfortable caps that are not hand-tied. I have a few in my wig closet that I can wear, and I love. Usually, I choose these when I know I won’t need to wear it all day.
Of course, nothing is perfect. A hand-tied cap can mean less air flow, not as much stretch in the cap, and this can be a challenge, especially in the summer.
Not everyone has the same issues, and there are many people who can deal with all the different kinds of cap construction with no problems. I still have a dozen or so wigs in my collection with wefted caps, but they all have lace fronts, and most have some mono feature.
The fit is the other challenge. My head is petite-average, and the Raquel Welch hand-tied wigs fit me almost perfectly in every wig that I have. They fit so well that I rarely wear any kind of added wig security like wig grips or adhesives. It’s a good thing because I can’t put anything resembling a chemical on my scalp. Because my wig fit is so great, the most I ever need to do is maybe add a bobby pin on each side when I go to the dentist.
Now to go from wig cap construction to what we call a wig cap that goes underneath our wigs:
Wig Cap materials: There are several—nylon, mesh, cotton, and bamboo. The cost is low to moderate for caps and worth trying several to see what works best for you. Also, check out the bamboo liners that can help with comfort and that absorbs sweat to make wig wearing more comfortable, especially in the summer.
Must we wear a cap? No, and in fact, I do not ever wear one. While a cap can offer some security (and comfort) in that your wig might stay in place better, it is not meant to solve all your wig security problems.
Wig Security: As most experienced wig wearers know, there are many ways to secure a wig. There are clips, tape, glue, and grips. How you use these, if you use these, is a personal decision based on your preferences, comfort level, and need. Most wig-wearers that I know have experimented with several methods. For the new wig wearers, you will find what works for you too, it just might take a bit of experimenting.
There is nothing better than stepping out into the world knowing that you look the way you want to look, and not worrying about your hair. With a bit of experience and time, you will come to appreciate the advantages of being able to never have a bad hair day. You can change your hair style, color and your total look in minutes. Wigs are so well done these days that most experienced stylists can’t tell the difference unless they examine your head. I have done other blogs about making your wig look realistic, and our reviewers have great information videos on this topic as well. If you have a problem, or a question, you are likely to find the answer on at least one of Wigstudio1’s many resources.
Until next time, check out WigStudio1 Facebook page, and other blogs on this site.
May you look forward to the holidays knowing you will look the way you want to look, thanks to great wigs!
Vickie Lynn
]]>Days and weeks go by, and we are perfectly happy with our wigs and how we look in them. Then for no reason we can name, one day we look in the mirror and think, is it time for a new look? Suddenly your look, that wig you loved—
]]>Days and weeks go by, and we are perfectly happy with our wigs and how we look in them. Then for no reason we can name, one day we look in the mirror and think, is it time for a new look? Suddenly your look, that wig you loved—well, it’s ho-hum. Also known as, maybe it’s time for a change. No, there’s nothing wrong with your wig or your look. But sometimes we just want something new.
We all know this happens in all areas of our life. We often become tired of our clothes long before we have gotten a lot of wear out of them. We want to try new paint colors in our homes and change out that furniture in the living room, and so on. So, why should we be surprised that we sometimes need a change of hair style and/or color?
Changing your hair/wig style and color is so much easier and less costly than getting new furniture or a new wardrobe, of course, but it can be just as anxiety producing, or more so. How do you decide what to try next? Are you ready to get out of your comfort zone? Or if you are like me, is now the time for something new but nothing too drastic? \
The great thing about wigs, and especially buying a wig from Wigstudio1, is that you can get a lot of help before you make the big decision to buy a new wig. Between the Wigstudio1 Facebook group and input from staff, you can learn about first-hand experiences and likely see a picture or two of how that wig looks on a real person not with studio lights, or a model picture.
For me, seeing other wig wearers, and learning about their experience with certain brands and styles has been most helpful. The wig reviews on Facebook and on the reviewers YouTube channel are invaluable. Take advantage of all these resources because it might make your decision easier.
In the end, no matter how many reviews you see or pictures you look at—the decision will be yours. Sometimes it helps to just give it some time, and to do more looking around. It might be helpful to ask yourself what it was about your current wig or wigs that appealed to you in the first place. We should ask ourselves what it is exactly that we would like to change. Is it color, style, cap construction, or maybe all of this. Once we have a clear idea what it is we want to change, it will help us narrow down our options. Otherwise, making impulsive or emotional decisions can be costly.
One of the great things about wig wearing is the ease with which we can make changes to our looks. I know what colors and lengths look best on me, and when I want to branch out, I normally go to something in the same color family, and just change the style/length. This too can sound boring to some maybe, but I know myself and what I like. I also know that I have two wigs sitting in boxes in my closet I will never wear because I made an impulsive decision one day. But I also have a couple of wigs in boxes that I have recently re-visited and wondered why I had not been wearing them more.
Moral to the story, we do get bored, but we can also change our preferences. Though I know I will never wear the blonde wig with too much gold in it, I will very likely wear two other wigs I had put aside for reasons I can no longer recall. Don’t let yourself get into a rut with your style or color. Just do your homework. When you are ready--change it up with confidence! Life is short!
Me in one of my change-up styles, Raquel Welch, “Crowd Pleaser” in shaded cappuccino.
Until next time,
VickeLynn
]]>Whether you plan a quiet family holiday at home, or a trip across the country or even to another country, your wigs will be a big part of the picture. We certainly don’t want to worry about our wigs along with all of the other holiday details we may be dealing with whether at home or traveling.
]]>Whether you plan a quiet family holiday at home, or a trip across the country or even to another country, your wigs will be a big part of the picture. We certainly don’t want to worry about our wigs along with all of the other holiday details we may be dealing with whether at home or traveling.
There are a lot of things to consider when it comes to holiday wig-wearing that you don’t necessarily have to deal with on a daily basis otherwise. For example, wearing a non-heat friendly wig in a hot kitchen with family members or other visiting guests around. Opening and closing the oven can be a real concern if you are wearing a non-heat friendly wig. It’s important that you have a plan for how to manage that. You don’t want to ruin a good wig by getting too close to the oven heat or having to worry about your wig constantly.
If you will be with people who don’t know you wear a wig, and you don’t plan to share that information, the easiest solution is to get a heat-friendly wig. Otherwise, you can do some sort of wrap, and tell visiting family and/or guests that you are protecting your hairstyle until dinner time when you can get out of the kitchen.
If you are traveling, there is wig packing to think about. You will need to decide how many wigs to take, the best way to pack them, the best way to secure them, and the always question about will TSA detect the metal stays in the wig (not likely). Most people do what I do and carry a spare wig (or two) in Ziplock bags. They are protected and take up less space, and it’s easy for bag checkers to see what they are.
Of course, there is another concern, and this is a personal one that each of us must decide on our own—do we take different wigs (styles/colors) or wig duplicates. Again, it depends on you, and where you will be going, staying, and if the same people will see you day after day. Obviously, if you want to stick with the decision to keep your wig-wearing to yourself, a wig and a spare duplicate makes the most sense. If you don’t mind sharing your wig journey with others, you can add more wig styles and/or colors to give yourself flexibility.
Whatever you decide, wigs shouldn’t become a problem for us, but rather should make our lives easier and better. I cringe when I think of facing anyone with my thinning hair and trying to make it presentable. I am grateful for wigs and will not complain about the steps I need to take to keep them looking good.
As you think about your holiday plans, don’t forget about your wigs.
Until next time,
VickieLynn
]]>My name is Andrea Carlson, and I have had Trichotillomania since I was very young. My goal with this blog is to provide some refreshed and updated information on Trichotillomania.
Trichotillomania, often referred to as "trich," is a mental health disorder characterized by the irresistible urge to pull out one's hair. This condition affects people of all ages, genders, and backgrounds, impacting their physical and emotional well-being. In this blog, I will dive into some of the intricacies of trichotillomania, exploring its symptoms, causes, and available treatments.
What is Trichotillomania?
Trichotillomania falls under the category of obsessive-compulsive and related disorders. Individuals with trich experience an overwhelming compulsion to pull out their own hair, leading to noticeable hair loss. The hair-pulling can occur from any part of the body, but it is most commonly associated with the scalp, eyebrows, and eyelashes.
Symptoms
Hair Loss: The most apparent symptom of trichotillomania is noticeable hair loss, often resulting in bald patches. Many of us "Trichsters" will go to great lengths to disguise the effects of their hair-pulling, using wigs, hats, scarves, or makeup to conceal the areas of hair loss.
Bare Patches: Trichotillomania can cause irregular or patchy hair growth due to repeated pulling in specific areas. This can be particularly distressing for those struggling with the condition.
Tension and Relief: Many individuals with trichotillomania experience a build-up of tension or anxiety before pulling out their hair. The act of pulling provides a sense of relief, albeit temporary, from this emotional distress. For me personally, I experience an area of itching or tenderness in the area before I pull.
Causes
The exact cause of trichotillomania is not well understood, but it is believed to result from a combination of genetic, biological, and environmental factors. Some potential contributing factors include:
Genetics: There is evidence to suggest a genetic component in trichotillomania, with a higher likelihood of the disorder occurring in individuals with a family history of obsessive-compulsive disorders. I have a few family members that have Trichotillomania.
Neurological Factors: Differences in brain function and neurotransmitter levels may play a role in the development of trichotillomania. Research suggests that imbalances in serotonin and dopamine, neurotransmitters associated with mood regulation, may contribute to the disorder.
Stress and Trauma: Traumatic experiences or high-stress situations can trigger or exacerbate trichotillomania in some individuals. The act of hair-pulling may serve as a coping mechanism for dealing with overwhelming emotions.
Treatment Options
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT): CBT is often considered the most effective treatment for trichotillomania. This therapeutic approach helps individuals identify and change negative thought patterns and behaviors associated with hair-pulling.
Medication: In some cases, medication such as selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) or habit-reversal training may be prescribed to help manage symptoms.
Support Groups: Connecting with others who share similar experiences can provide valuable support and encouragement. Support groups offer a safe space for individuals with trichotillomania to share their challenges and successes. There are some great support groups on social media. Our support group is called Wig Studio 1 Wig and Topper Support Group. Although this group is about wigs and toppers in general, there are a lot of individuals that share their stories of hair loss. It is a very supportive, uplifting and welcoming group. Another resource is The Trichotillomania Learning Center (also knows as BFRB).
Conclusion
Trichotillomania is a complex and challenging disorder that can significantly impact the lives of those affected. Understanding the symptoms, causes, and available treatments is crucial for promoting empathy, reducing stigma, and supporting yourself or other individuals on their journey to recovery. If you or someone you know is struggling with trichotillomania, seeking professional help is a crucial step toward regaining control and fostering a healthier relationship with oneself.
]]>I had to ask myself that question recently as I attempted to make an overnight change from my usual wig(s) colors of shaded cappuccino and Iced Latte Macchiato—and go gray.
]]>I had to ask myself that question recently as I attempted to make an overnight change from my usual wig(s) colors of shaded cappuccino and Iced Latte Macchiato—and go gray. I looked in the mirror and didn’t know myself in all-gray wig. I asked myself, “who are you now” and meant it. As per my last blog—yes, it was too soon to make such a drastic change, and I needed a transition period. Lesson learned.
It’s one of life’s many challenges that we must keep re-inventing ourselves as things change in our life. Whether it be the many changes we all go through to reach adulthood or now, as adults, the changes we must accept and deal with by choice or circumstance.
We all have our milestones—and to name a few: graduations, dating, first job/career changes, marriage, children, empty nest, and many others that may be different or in-between all these. No matter the role we are called upon to play, or our changing titles, there is a “real you” underneath the face we put on for every role we play.
You may be asking what this has to do with wigs. When one loses their hair, especially a woman, it can bring about a real identity crisis. Whatever way hair loss comes, it is disruptive to our life and our identity. For years we have looked in that mirror and have seen the person with long brown hair, short blonde hair, curly hair, and so on. But now who are we? We are the person with no hair, or almost no hair, and what does that mean? How do we re-invent ourselves when this happens? What face do we put on in this circumstance? We need to remember: We are still the same person as always—just without our old hair.
Hair loss is a shock, even if we’ve been told it was coming. Our self-image is disrupted, and that can affect our life in many ways. As strong as we may be, or as efficient, capable, loved, loving, nice, kind—it doesn’t matter. For a woman, (and I am guessing it’s true for men as well) hair loss means we are losing one of the things that help identify us. For women, it’s an identifier in a special way. Our hair looks different from men’s hair, mostly. We need to remember: We are still the same person as always—just with different hair!
The good news: Wigs are so well made today that unless you tell someone you are wearing one, no one else needs to know. All kinds of people get all kinds of help every day to replace all kinds of losses. Whether it be hair, teeth, limbs, and even organs, we are living in a time where we have options so that we can still be who we thought we were with some help and adjustments. We need to remember: We are still the same person as always—just with lots of different hair to pick from now!
My grandmother often said, no one gets out of this life without battle scars. She also said to wear them as a badge of honor because it shows how strong we are. That’s not to say we won’t have some dark moments when we look in the mirror and get angry that we don’t have the hair we had at twenty-five, and ask “why me”?
When I am tempted to ask, “why me” I think of my grandmother again. She lost her husband due to a freak auto accident. There she was, shy of forty, no career, and with six children to raise during the depression. I can’t recall her ever saying much about how hard it was. She was never a complainer. Nor did she complain about the food and materials rationing during the war, or the fear she must have had as she watched two of her three sons go off to be in that war.
I don’t know if I could have endured what my grandmother did without complaining but knowing about it helps me keep things in perspective. In the end, no matter what we have to face, we find our way. We know that though we do play many roles in life, if we remember who we really are, that will keep us going.
Until next week,
VickieLynn saying, whatever the weather, you will find a way through…a picture from a friend of her rainy day in London.
]]>If you are, do you plan to tiptoe in using a transition color or two over time, or do you plan to close your eyes, jump in and make a drastic overnight change? I recently learned that giving up one’s current hair color(s), especially a couple of colors
]]>If you are, do you plan to tiptoe in using a transition color or two over time, or do you plan to close your eyes, jump in and make a drastic overnight change? I recently learned that giving up one’s current hair color(s), especially a couple of colors I’ve fallen in love with and are used to seeing myself in consistently was not so easy.
I learned that no matter how much you think you are excited about embracing that lovely new silver, gray, white, or a mix of it all, it’s a big change. Though change can often be exciting, it also comes with a tiny bit of fear—what if I don’t like it?
Some of you will be braver than I, and I envy you. I wanted to share my experience about jumping in and not taking the tiptoe approach. That’s not to say I didn’t think things through—I was sure I’d considered everything. I did my research; I watched YouTube videos to see others in the same color wig I thought would work for me. I compared colors the best that I could, and in the end, I just went for it. As it turned out, I jumped too soon. The wig brand was great, the wig itself well-made, the color was as described, and it was on sale. What more could I ask for?
Here I am, a wig blogger, wig owner, and wig researcher, and yet I had forgotten one of the most important things: wigs have color, we have color—and those two things aren’t always complimentary. I know about skin tone, and under-tones. I have even written about it. But until I saw that one shade/combination of silvery-white-light-gray on myself, and realized it made my face look ruddy, I knew I’d never understood the clash of tones at all. The color/shades in the wig would have been so striking on someone with yellow under-tones, but with my pink under-tones, it just made me look as if I had an eternal blush.
Back to the drawing board, as they say. I have since learned what shades of gray-silver-white, etc., will work best with my skin.
Confession time: I also made mistake number #2. Mistake #2 is making a big change before one is ready for it. When I went from shaded cappuccino or even SS Café Latte Macchiato, my two favorites, to silver-mist—it was just too much for my brain. When I looked in the mirror, it was like looking at a stranger. I wasn’t ready.
Trying different colors is one thing but making a big switch while thinking—this is it, the new me, is a bit more jarring. Of course, as one gets older, we expect changes, and that includes hair color. But when one ages with bio hair there is a transition period in most cases. We can watch the silver or gray come in slowly as our old bio hair color fades away and gets trimmed off. There is time to mourn and celebrate the change, both a natural thing.
Transitioning into gray color wig colors might seem simple and straightforward, but it's not. At least it wasn’t for me. Switching from brown, blonde, or any other color to gray can be a significant change. I think of the advice I read, and even wrote about but I didn’t take: If you want to transition to gray wigs discretely, the key is to start with a little bit of gray and stick with undertones that best suit you.
If you are like me and you think that switching over all at once is too drastic, maybe consider what I am considering now: going through a transition period. Fortunately, there are wig colors that can help us with that. Depending on your patience and resources, you can find other ways to make the big change happen and doing it in steps might be psychologically easier to handle.
Whatever you decide, don’t make my mistake. Know your skin tone, and just as important, your under tone. Just as important--know if you are psychologically ready to see yourself in an all gray or silver wig from this day forth. Of course, there is no law that says you can’t wear a gray wig some of the time and switch back and forth. But for most women, it will be a this is the new me moment, and this is the color family they will stick with. That is, of course, up to each individual. For me, I felt the time was now, and that all my wigs going forward would be shades of gray. And though I still want that, I just haven’t found my shade yet. But I will! Here are some links to YouTube videos by Taz and Eileen talking about this topic, and I hope it will help you as it did me. I shall now take my own advice and spend some time with both of the videos as I ponder what my gray color or colors will be and find a transition color to get me to my goal.
Until next time,
VickieLynn
]]>For the past three years, Wig Studio 1 has partnered with Estetica Designs and Keep A Breast Foundation to support Breast Cancer Prevention. Keep A Breast Foundation's mission is to, "Reduce breast cancer risk and its impact globally through art, education, prevention, and action". Wig Studio 1 is pleased to be able to help this wonderful initiative by donating over $4,700, 10% of our October profits from Estetica Designs.
We want to extend a special thank you to all of our loyal customers who helped us make this possible. Thank you for helping us in our efforts to provide encouragement and support to those experiencing hair loss. We certainly could not have done this without you!
If you or someone you know is struggling with hair loss of any kind, we would love to connect with you! We have a private Wig and Topper Support Group on Facebook that we would love for you to be a part of!
I never gave much thought to the size of my head before I started wearing wigs. After all, a head is a head, I thought. How wrong I was. Though I have read no studies on this, it seems to me that every head might be a bit different
]]>I never gave much thought to the size of my head before I started wearing wigs. After all, a head is a head, I thought. How wrong I was. Though I have read no studies on this, it seems to me that every head might be a bit different. This is at the heart of wig sizing, and we all learn soon enough about wig caps and how they fit. Though face measurements have nothing to do with wig fitting they have a lot to do with how a certain wig might look on you. And to make it even more interesting, most of us have different face widths and lengths.
Yes, your head size determines your wig fit, but we soon learn that is not the entire story. If you are like me, you didn’t spend much of your life worrying or wondering about your head size or neck length. To have that come up as you start your wig journey, brings a learning curve with it.
If you are a new wig wearer, you might think, when you get that new wig home, that it doesn’t even resemble the wig you saw online or in a magazine, and you wonder why. I can tell you why that might happen. It could be because your head and face structure/shape is nothing like the model who was wearing the wig you just bought. No, I don’t mean looks—is she younger, older, prettier, thinner, heavier, etc., no, I mean the actual head and face—size and shape. Then, there is the neck length, which will also determine if the wig will look longer or shorter on you than on the model.
If you have bought a few wigs by now, think about what didn’t work, what did, and you will likely have figured some things out already. But if you are unhappy with your choices consistently, I have come up with some questions that might help you work through your dilemma.
One thing that helped me at the start of my wig journey was trying on different styles, lengths, and colors in a wig boutique to get a better idea of what worked for me. If you have access to one, give them a try. You don’t necessarily have to buy from them. You can likely same money buying from companies like WigStudio1 due to their much larger inventory. But if you are feeling really lost and insecure about making that first step into wig wearing, it is something to consider. I know that not everyone lives near a wig boutique, and there will be more trial and error and maybe a few returns before you work it out. Remember that WigStudio1 has a wonderful customer help line. They have heard many questions and will likely have the answer you need to help you solve whatever issue you have.
If you have never measured your head or face (hairline to chin), there are some very good Wigstudio1 videos about that, and that should be your first stop if you are having cap fitting issues. It’s time to learn if you are petite, petite-average, truly average, large, or if you are an in-between. You will also learn how to alter the cap to fit you better, and there are videos on that as well.
Don’t settle for just okay in style or comfort. There are ways to work out the issues so that you will be happy with your wigs.
Until next time, I’m loving the chill in the air…
VickieLynn
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Any good psychologist can tell you that it’s important for us to have goals, something to look forward to, and how the changing seasons might highlight these things.
]]>Any good psychologist can tell you that it’s important for us to have goals, something to look forward to, and how the changing seasons might highlight these things. Any time there is a shift in our environment it seems to set the stage for reflection of some sort. What does your wig collection say about you? Is it saying, hmmm, it may be time for a change?
If like me, wearing wigs is an everyday thing, and the changing seasons brings thoughts of new wigs along with a change in wardrobe. Nothing is more personal than how we see ourselves, and how we want others to see us. Along with the ever-changing seasons, we too are changing. We turn that calendar to the next month, and then the next, and we deal with what comes. As we age, we learn new things and sometimes set new goals based on the “season” of life we might be celebrating. We re-assess what we want and what is important to us on a regular basis, even if we don’t verbalize it.
My reflection time came as I was my closet looking through my fall clothes. I hadn’t started out to inventory my wigs, but there they were, two stacks of wig boxes in the corner. What’s a person to do, but open a few? That is what I did, and with each wig I put on, it brought back memories of when and why I bought it. I realized that the boxes of wigs were like a journal of sorts. I had my professional-in-the-office wigs that I wore before I “retired” to write books from home, and they were mostly the same wig in varying colors. I had my longer wigs, that reminded me of my lack of styling skill—enough said about that. My favorite collection is my shorter wigs, and I find that I reach for them more often than any other. As I have been turning my personal calendar pages, and looking into the future, I see my wig collection as representing my past and now my present.
My new season…As I look from present to the future, I am for the first time considering a major shift in wigs—a big leap. I am not looking to change wig length so much as wig style and color. I no longer want to deal with coloring my bio hair, and what is growing out is becoming more silver than faded, dirty blonde. Since I like to blend my bio hair with my wigs by pulling out some on the sides, as I know some of you do as well, I realized that pulling out even more of the silver-white hair on the sides of another color might look a bit odd. So, what’s a wig wearer to do?
Yes, you may have guessed it—it was time I considered embracing the white-silverness of my bio hair and the possibility of transitioning to wigs of the same color. But oh, this would be a major step! I have all of these other wigs in colors that I love and are so—me. Is so me, or was so me? That has become the question. What will silver-white wigs say about me? Will I be looked at differently? Will I look at myself differently, and if so, what will that mean?
Maybe you aren’t ready for the “big leap” but maybe a smaller leap like from short to long, or from blonde to red. It takes courage to make a change that is so obvious to you and to others. We have a picture in our head of who we are, and others have a picture of us in their heads as well. Part of that picture is the way we look. It takes some courage to put that thought aside and to make the leap anyway.
As I continue to ponder my big leap, I know it is not a question of if but of when. Every day I become more comfortable with that. As I turn my calendar to autumn and the change it brings, I am more aware of the changes in myself.
Wishing you a fabulous October,
VickieLynn
]]>I can always count on seeing this question on Facebook, especially from new wig wearers. I had the same question. What do I say when someone compliments my hair? How do I handle critiques from friends or family who seem to want to discourage me from wig wearing?
]]>I can always count on seeing this question on Facebook, especially from new wig wearers. I had the same question. What do I say when someone compliments my hair? How do I handle critiques from friends or family who seem to want to discourage me from wig wearing? Should I just tell family and close friends? How should I handle telling (or not telling) work colleagues? There is no one answer to any of these questions. Only you know the best way to answer because only you know your level of confidence, and the dynamics of your relationships, both personal and professional. I’d guess that most people have zero knowledge of wigs. I’d bet that the majority of people your meet in a casual or work environment know nothing or little about wigs. So, that puts the ball in your court so to speak. You get to decide.
The other recurring topic is about romantic relationships. How and when, or if—you should bring this up. This is tricky because trust places a big role here. I’d certainly not make it a conversation on a first or even second date. After all, if this is someone that you don’t know well, and may not see again, why put yourself through that stress? Now, the tricky part. If you do progress to a more serious relationship, an intimate relationship, then what—how do you prepare your partner ahead of time, or do you have to do that? Unfortunately, there are no rules about this, and it comes back to you again, your trust level with the other person, and your own confidence that you are more than your hair.
If you do get to that intimate relationship point and are still not ready to have the wig discussion, there is one thing my friend recommended that worked for her and allowed her time to ease her way into having the conversation. She told her partner that she had hair extensions in and to keep his hands out of her hair. Plain and simple, and that is what happened. She offered no other explanation until she was ready to, and that was weeks down the road when she was sure their relationship was one that she wanted to cultivate.
You can do as she did, or you can just say upfront that you are wearing a wig so please don’t mess with it and offer no further information. However, saying that will in all likelihood bring questions, so make sure you are ready to answer them. If you are in the early dating stages there are, of course, ways to secure your wig to keep it looking natural until you do get to a more serious point in your relationship.
What about your work colleagues? That can be handled any way you think best. Depending on your bio hair prior the wig, and how drastic the change will be when you appear one Monday morning looking very different will be the guiding factor. If the change in your appearance is a noticeable one, you will most certainly have someone confront you about it or make a comment. Only you know your work situation. If you have been wearing some other kind of helper hair the change to a full wig may not be very noticeable. This is especially true if you are just going to a lower density wig much like your prior look. Remember, people are much too concerned about their own looks and life to dwell too much on others. We are our own worse critics.
If you love wigs and want to wear different styles and colors to work on a regular basis, that is a different story. Then you’ll have to go for it and tell everyone what you’re doing, and in a week or so, it will no longer be a topic for discussion or comment. This is the jumping into the fire with both feet approach. Some people can handle it, and some rather not take this approach. Only you can decide.
A warning flag here—Be ready for this person: you will run into someone, somewhere, maybe when you least expect it, be they family, friend, or co-worker, who will have something to say. There are people who seem to think that their mission in life is to offer their opinion on everything, whether they know anything about the topic or not. In the case of wigs, I’ve found that it those who know nothing about them that feel they must give their critique. Be ready for them. They will ask questions, comment on the color and/or style, ask you the cost, and in general, make you uncomfortable if you let them. I have found a few well-chosen sentences can usually shut them down. Here are some retorts that I’ve heard used over the years by seasoned wig wearers when they were asked questions about their hair/wig.
“Why yes, it is a wig. Do you have wig or hair styling experience?”
“If you’re really interested, I can send you some information.”
“Costs vary. I can point you to a few good websites if you need more information.”
“People wear wigs for all sorts of reasons. I am grateful that I have such great options.”
“I like being a blonde, but hold on, I could show up as a redhead tomorrow.”
I could go on, but you get the idea. You really DO NOT owe anyone any explanation. How much you decide to “show and tell” is your decision. Don’t let someone force you into it before you’re ready. You should be the one to decide to keep it to yourself or jump in the fire with both feet.
Until next time,
VickieLynn saying,
Pull out that little bit of the magical witch in you and stand tall. This is my favorite with, Hazel, holding her mask as she gets ready for fall and winter.
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This started off to be about wig caps, but it grew into a broader topic—how to move ahead in our wig journey, and how to see ourselves as we are today. Yes, picking the right cap is important and I will cover that here...
]]>This started off to be about wig caps, but it grew into a broader topic—how to move ahead in our wig journey, and how to see ourselves as we are today. Yes, picking the right cap is important and I will cover that here, but it’s just one of many things we must look at on our ever-evolving wig journey.
First, let’s look at some basic things that all wig wearers must figure out: I never gave much thought to the size of my head. After all, a head is a head, I thought. This was before I got into wigs of course—literally and figuratively. No two heads are exactly the same. Though you might match certain measurements to most heads in general, you may not have considered the measurement from crown to chin, across the cheek bones or paid much attention to the forehead.
We are so used to seeing our face multiple times a day that we stop really seeing it. My face? Yes, when you get a wig home and it doesn’t resemble the look you saw online or in a magazine, and you wonder why—I can tell you. It might be because your head and face structure/shape is nothing like the model’s face. No, I don’t mean looks—is she younger, prettier, not as pretty as you, etc., no, I mean the actual face structure.
And now some hard questions that you need to think through in order to be happy with your wigs. You want your wig to part of you, to reflect you, and work with your look. As you think of the wigs you own, what didn’t work, what did, you likely have figured some things out already. But if you are unhappy with your choices consistently then I have come up with some questions that might help you work through your dilemma.
Now, back to our theme: Though it is true that we are most often our own worst critic, we can also be “self-blind” about our looks because we fail to really see ourselves as we are, the psychologists tell us. They did a study with overweight women who all said they seemed to “wake up” one day and somehow, they had gained X number of pounds “without seeing it” and the study went on to apply this “self-blind” theory to our appearance in general. We look but we don’t see.
So, I hope these questions help you “see” because they did help me:
A little about my personal journey: Early on and just by accident when I was naïve about wigs, I ended up in a local wig boutique. But it turned out to be most helpful. I was able to try on different styles, lengths, and colors to get a better idea of what worked. I bought my first wig at the boutique. Later, armed with more wig knowledge, I knew I could order from good companies like WigStudio1 and feel confident that I was getting the right wigs for me and at a better price. I know that not everyone lives near a wig boutique and there will be more trial and error and maybe a few returns before you work it out. I wish I had access to all of the great reviewers when I first started my wig journey.
My hair stylist friend jokes about women who are caught up in the “back in time” syndrome. He says that some women refuse to change styles and colors as they age. While this, ironically, is one thing that ages them. We all age, a fact, and we lose collagen in our faces, and our complexion changes. What looked good on us five or ten years ago, or whenever, does not work so well now.
My parting thought is that age doesn’t matter. Whether you are 16 or 116, you deserve to look your best and feel your best. Just make sure that whatever you pick reflects the you of today.
Until next time, as September fades and as October and the wonderful fall things grow near, I’ll soon be looking at the fall styles, how about you?
VickieLynn—
saying…life is short, so wear that hair, and hug someone you love.
]]>I’d venture to say that no one would pick losing one’s hair as a great way to test our confidence or self-esteem. But if it’s happened to you, know that the way you choose to deal with it can make all the difference in your mood, outlook, and relationships with others...
]]>I’d venture to say that no one would pick losing one’s hair as a great way to test our confidence or self-esteem. But if it’s happened to you, know that the way you choose to deal with it can make all the difference in your mood, outlook, and relationships with others—and your confidence level. Choose to be confident!
That first day out the door to face the world with our first wig can be exciting, terrifying, anxiety producing, or all of these things at once. But the day will come when we must take that big first step. We can’t hide from the world forever. We must put ourselves out in the world and do it with confidence. If we stay in the denial or anger stage, we run the risk of not taking advantage of those things that can help us—like wigs. We also run the risk of not getting on with our life. We don’t want to give over—not even one second of our life, to fighting a battle that we can’t win. So, if you know that your bio hair is gone for good, or at least to the point that you don’t feel confident about how you look out in the world, know that you have options.
Also, we can’t hide from the fact that there is a psychological impact from hair loss, like any other loss. We must give ourselves time to work through that. But to linger in the stages of grief too long can be harmful. The final step in any grieving process is acceptance.
We may not have a choice about losing our hair, but we can choose how we respond. We can refuse to live in denial and allow hair loss to destroy our confidence and quality of life. Getting the help that we need is the first step. Learning about wigs and how they can enhance your life is the next step and just as important.
Like most wig wearers, I had to try a few wigs to get to my happy place, but when I did it was as if someone turned the light from dim to bright. I looked in the mirror and saw me—just me, and not the wig. I knew then that I had found a style and color that suited me, and that made all the difference. My confidence began to return.
Things NOT to do:
Please don’t give up after trying just one or two wigs. You will likely feel the same as a lot of people: the wig has too much hair (because you are not used to seeing yourself with a thick head of hair), and the fit is not right. Granted, some wigs do have a lot of hair, but you should know that some have a lower density and no permatease if that is what you like best. In other words, don’t make quick decisions. There is a wig cap learning curve as well. Did you measure your head? Do you know about the difference cap styles/construction? Also, know that it will take a while to get rid of the feeling that something is sitting on your head.
Don’t think that you will look like the wig model. Have realistic expectations. Your face shape, coloring, age, may or may not be the same as the models. Even the length of your head and neck might be different, causing the wig to look longer or shorter on you than the model.
Don’t be afraid to put your hands in and on your wig. This can be tricky because you don’t want to mess up the “factory part” if there is a chance you might want to return the wig. But, if you know you like it and will keep it, get in there and style it. Very few wigs come right out of the box looking great. Don’t be afraid to use the proper products on it to make it your own. Put clips in or wear a headband to add an even more realistic look. There are tons of great WigStudio1 sponsored videos that will help you achieve the look that makes you comfortable. From products to security options, you can find it on The WigStudio1 YouTube channels or the reviewers' channels.
Don’t give up because you haven’t found the right way to secure your wig. And by “right” I mean the way that works for you. Different people like and use different methods. I am a “purist” in that I like nothing but an occasional clip or bobbie pin to secure mine if I go to the dentist. But I am lucky to have found the wig brand and kind of cap that fits me so well. There is no one-size head. We all have heads that can be shaped differently—something I had never given much thought to until I became a wig wearer. Securing my wig is less of a challenge than someone with an office job, or someone with small children, etc. I am an author/writer so I work from home and can control my environment. I don’t do a lot of up and down, in and out, running around, or having to be being outside in the elements, all of which, might require a more wig security than I use. So, as you can see, securing your wig is a very personal choice. Fortunately, you have many choices.
A happy ending—yes, there is one. Before you know it, you will be a pro in your own right. You will know all about caps, fibers, heat friendly wigs, and how to care for them. You’ll know which colors and styles flatter you—and there is when the fun begins. You have options! Just take a look at the website today—wow.
VickieLynn – reminding you to be confident!
]]>If you are anything like me, you like to change up your look—and that includes your wigs, as the seasons change. Those pixies and shorter styles may all be washed and boxed up, and out comes the longer styles.
]]>If you are anything like me, you like to change up your look—and that includes your wigs, as the seasons change. Those pixies and shorter styles may all be washed and boxed up, and out comes the longer styles. Of course, there is no wig-law saying you must box up anything for any season. Whether you wear short styles all year long (like I do), or they are all put away for the fall and winter season, we all like change now and then. It may still be summer and pretty darn hot, but I have high hopes fall will soon arrive. Yes, I dream of fall and new wigs.
Now and then, when I can’t remember what wigs, I do have in my closet, I step over my storage boxes and go take a peek. I never fail to pull out one or two and try them on with the thought that I must have loved them at one time so why am I not wearing them? This logic usually ends up with me pulling out at least one of them to put back into my wig rotation. We wig wearers are a unique bunch.
Though I know that I will find a wig or two in my closet to pull out for the new season, I still want a NEW ONE! I know I’m not alone. I spend hours looking at the new styles and colors, researching, reviewing, trying to figure out if the color would suit me. Fortunately, WigStudio1 has some great reviewers, and a great Facebook page, and I often get to see the one I want on someone else. It’s also helpful to see the wig with the lighting used by whoever posts the pictures. I can then compare the color with what I have seen on the reviewers. Lighting can be tricky, so I find that is what I spend the most time on before I buy—picking the color. I have found the posts on the Facebook page to be very helpful in making my final decision.
I don’t think there is a universally accepted logical reason for why we change our mind about some things. A dress, hairstyle, makeup, the color of our kitchen walls—you get the picture. But we do. I refuse to feel guilty about that. It would be very boring if we never changed anything. I think that goes for wigs as well. We can fall out of love or back in love with our wigs, and I do it all the time.
As you think about what’s in your wig closet/collection, and you take the time to review it like I did, you might decide it is time for a new one—like I did. While contemplating your wig collection, if you decide there are wigs that you know you will never wear, please donate them. There are several places that will be happy to take them. They are much needed by the health care and cancer community because insurance doesn’t always cover all the costs. And unless it is cancer, a lot of insurance companies cover no cost. Also, there are women in shelters who are trying to re-start their lives who might need a wig and can’t afford it. So, if you have some that are in good shape but are just no longer your desired style or color, think about giving donation a try.
I’m thinking about yet another Muse, my favorite, in yet another color. I know, I know, and I may be in a rut, but you know it when you find it!
Until next time,
VickieLynn in Muse (again)
]]>That question is not easy to answer. It’s like asking which is better, chocolate brownie or chocolate ice cream, or whatever flavors you like.
]]>That question is not easy to answer. It’s like asking which is better, chocolate brownie or chocolate ice cream, or whatever flavors you like. But you get the point. After eight years of wig wearing and much research, I decided there was no such thing as “best” because each had its pros and cons—like most everything else.
Synthetic Wigs – Pros and Cons
Pros
Cons
Human Hair Wigs or some call them Natural Wigs—Pros and Cons
First, let’s talk about the types of human hair wigs. Natural or human hair wigs are made form 100% human hair. They can range be Remy, virgin, and 100% human hair. Virgin hair is untreated, 100% human hair. It is very hard to find and very expensive. Remy may or may not be treated or dyed. Remy is a human hair ponytail whose cuticles point in the same direction. Remy hair can be treated also. 100% human hair is hair that has not had harsh chemical treatments that have stripped away the cuticles, and is therefore, the most natural looking type. It keeps the shine of biological hair and can be styled in any way you choose. This hair is often a blend of Chinese and Indian hair, or fine European hair.
Pros
Cons
So, in the end, it’s what works best for each of us. I have had both, and I’m pretty sure I won’t go back to a human hair wig. Too much work for me, an untalented stylist. The synthetics today are getting better all of the time. It is tempting to try a human hair wig, and some do, and they love it. They love the look of it, the feel of it, the way it moves, and they don’t mind the added time to do the care required.
Fortunately, there is something for each of us.
Until next time,
Vickielynn – in a synthetic wig.
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